[UK-CONTEST] July Radcom - BERU / Old Gits

[David Barber]

The posting below seems to attribute the following remark to me:

"> Someone somewhere needs their
> heads banging together since it's a bloody shambles."


I would like to make VERY CLEAR that I DID NOT make this remark.


David
G8OQW



-----Original Message-----
From: uk-contest-bounces at contesting.com
[mailto:uk-contest-bounces at contesting.com] On Behalf Of Peter Bowyer
Sent: 28 June 2009 17:31
To: uk-contest at contesting.com
Subject: Re: [UK-CONTEST] July Radcom - BERU / Old Gits

2009/6/28 David Barber <david.barber at dbelectronics.co.uk>:

> Expressing an opinion or making a suggestion does not
> signify an attitude of superior capability nor does it (in most cases)
> suggest a personal attack, it is merely something we are all entitled to
do,
> something we should consider of others and a right for which we should all
> be grateful.

No volunteer worth his/her salt would disagree. But when faced with an
opinion expressed like this:

> Someone somewhere needs their
> heads banging together since it's a bloody shambles.

then hackles tend to rise. That's human nature. A few minutes thought
about how the opinion is likely to be received can make all the
difference, and turn a potentially very negative impression into a
really positive one. Phrases such as 'bloody shambles' are never going
to go down well, and convey nothing which could be used to improve
things. Ones such as 'I've found some issues with how the information
is presented, who should I talk to in order to explain what I mean'
would be so much better.

Peter G4MJS
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Peter Bowyer
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