Dan Arney wrote:
>
> Steve you hit it right on the head. My XYL got bit by the Big C. But talked
> every thing over and had no problems.
> Look at Slick Willy and Pres. Hilla billary, must have lost his G____s along
> time ago.
> If the XYL wont talk or listen then point her in the correct direction, and
> enjoy your remaining life. without being hen picked. Just screw it and do it.
> Unless you are different from the rest of us you only have one time around.
> Enjoy it.
> Hank KN6DI
>
> k2we@juno.com wrote:
>
> > I've been watching all the comments regarding antenna & tower
> > installations that must pass the XYL's approval...I'm a bit confused...
> > I've been married to the same wonderful lady for 22+ years now.. When I
> > told her about 15 years ago, I wanted to install a tower.. she said go
> > right ahead... She never gave me any grief... She knows how much the
> > hobby means to me and that I can usually be found in the basement tuning
> > around on a various radio... Not, out with the guy's bar hopping...I just
> > can't get over these messages that the wife doesn't want the tower or
> > antenna... Marriage is a 2 way street... I respect what my wife does and
> > she does the same for me...In my house, we share everything... I won't do
> > anything without talking it over first..
> >
> > I think it's very important that your XYL understand you love her more
> > than the hobby.. I think most are very jealous.. This should not be... My
> > wife knows she's number 1 with me.. When we vacation in Barbados (where
> > I'm 8P9AP) she knows a radio will come along on the trip... No problem
> > with her.... Maybe I can only speak for myself.. but I'm not a Bill
> > Clinton...and my wife knows that....
> >
> > On my recent trip to vietnam (where I operated as 3W6WE) the trip was a
> > 50th birthday present... She knew how much it meant... Guy's. life is too
> > short... and marriage is a two way street... I can't tell you what to
> > do, but if your honest with her, she should be the same with you..... She
> > has nothing to fear except maybe a higher utility bill.. Hi...
> >
> > 73.. Steve/K2WE
> >
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Steve,
I agree, and I have been very blessed to have the wife I do and all the
other things in my life.As a matter of fact, she has asked my why I
havent begun to put the tower up at our new QTH (which has no house or
anything on it yet!) I thought that was pretty special of her, she
certainly understands that it is important to me to 'play radio' I
guess, but with a child coming in less than 2 weeks (we hope) and
housebuilding next spring, she is being pretty understanding.
todd, WD0T
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